DUDE... Your Sh1t Stinks...

I've never been good at lying. Because even if I lie, I still tell it. I am normally way too blunt and most of the time I'm so so brutally honest. Gosh, I just want to tell the truth and nothing but the truth so help me God. I am a compassionate person and I don't like hurting someone's feelings. I have no time for sugar-coating to spare feelings. I just want people to know how they really are. I don't think it would help someone when you tell him anything other than the truth especially when they really need to hear it. I have come across a lot of people who can't handle the truth. Some were totally pissed off with me, for not hearing any positive statement from me. I don't think anyone can be considered as a "Good Friend" if they approved anything you do especially when you are headed down a dangerous road. A "Real Friend" tells the truth to your face, even  when that truth cuts you like a knife. That wouldn't mean your friends doesn't love you or support you, they just want to save you from your grave, if they know that you're already digging your own.

I only got few good friends which I considered my "Best Friends"... They are the ones who would always tell me if I am totally dead-wrong for what I am doing, sometimes I would listen to them but there were times that I'd never heed any of their warnings... and it chewed me out. I've learned my lesson the hard way. But I've moved on. My friends are still what they are to me, now that we are all facing new challenges, the friendship remains and we are still helping each other pick up the pieces of our lives. I cherish what they say, even when it's not exactly what I want to hear.

I don't want people telling me that I'm really good as is, and that everything I do is great and I'm just OK. I don't like friends like that because I don't think I can be that kind of friend too. I've always want to hear the truth, no matter how much it hurts. I may ignore it and still do my own thing like an Idiot, but at least I'll know I had someone's care enough to tell me what I NEED to hear, and not just what I WANT to hear. So I'm telling you right now that I will never be your "YES MAN"... look elsewhere if you need one. Because I'm the kind of person who got no problems telling you when YOUR SH1T STINKS!